[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.daas.cz\/stavi-se-vase-dite-ke-vsemu-negativne\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.daas.cz\/stavi-se-vase-dite-ke-vsemu-negativne\/","headline":"Stav\u00ed se va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b ke v\u0161emu negativn\u011b?","name":"Stav\u00ed se va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b ke v\u0161emu negativn\u011b?","description":"Skute\u010dnost je takov\u00e1, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed dokonal\u00e9 a dle p\u0159edlohy toho, jak by m\u011blo vypadat jeho d\u011btstv\u00ed. V\u011bt\u0161ina d\u011bt\u00ed jsou osobnosti, kter\u00e9 si cht\u011bj\u00ed \u0159\u00eddit \u017eivot dle sv\u00e9ho p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed o tom, co jim p\u0159ijde<a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/www.daas.cz\/stavi-se-vase-dite-ke-vsemu-negativne\/\"> Read more&hellip;<\/a>","datePublished":"2025-03-02","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.daas.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.daas.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7b3e8bb7f7cc0c6ca940e74a10b952be4c7d81de8a980387c865f88889f02e3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7b3e8bb7f7cc0c6ca940e74a10b952be4c7d81de8a980387c865f88889f02e3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"daas.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.daas.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a327212_w2590_t1539457070.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.daas.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a327212_w2590_t1539457070.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.daas.cz\/stavi-se-vase-dite-ke-vsemu-negativne\/","about":["D\u011bti\r"],"wordCount":536,"articleBody":"Skute\u010dnost je takov\u00e1, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed dokonal\u00e9 a dle p\u0159edlohy toho, jak by m\u011blo vypadat jeho d\u011btstv\u00ed. V\u011bt\u0161ina d\u011bt\u00ed jsou osobnosti, kter\u00e9 si cht\u011bj\u00ed \u0159\u00eddit \u017eivot dle sv\u00e9ho p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed o tom, co jim p\u0159ijde spr\u00e1vn\u00e9. Kdy\u017e v\u0161ak va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b ke v\u0161emu p\u0159echov\u00e1v\u00e1 negativn\u00ed postoj, nen\u00ed to zcela p\u0159irozen\u00e1 v\u011bc a m\u011bli byste p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let nad t\u00edm, jak mu pomoci u\u017e\u00edt si d\u011btstv\u00ed tak, aby pozd\u011bji nelitovalo.\tNov\u00e9 v\u011bci d\u011bti d\u011bs\u00edPro d\u00edt\u011b je ka\u017ed\u00e1 nov\u00e1 zku\u0161enost \u2013 nov\u00e1 v\u011bc a nov\u00fd \u00fakol, nep\u0159edstaviteln\u011b n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd u\u017e jen z pohledu toho, \u017ee nev\u00ed, co m\u00e1 od n\u011bho o\u010dek\u00e1vat. Pro dosp\u011bl\u00e9 lidi je p\u0159irozen\u00e9 uv\u011bdomit si, \u017ee s nov\u00fdmi zku\u0161enostmi p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed i pozitiva, ale d\u00edt\u011b si tento stav je\u0161t\u011b neum\u00ed uspo\u0159\u00e1dat natolik, aby bylo k nov\u00fdm mo\u017enostem zcela otev\u0159en\u00e9.Rodi\u010de \u010dasto nech\u00e1pou, jak je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee jejich d\u00edt\u011b nem\u00e1 r\u00e1do vodu, ale p\u0159edstava toho, \u017ee pro d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159edstavu voda i jist\u00e9 riziko, je pro n\u011b u\u017e zcela nemysliteln\u00e1. Nebo j\u00edzda na kole (kdy d\u00edt\u011b zkou\u0161\u00ed novou formu z\u00e1bavy, do kter\u00e9 u\u017e d\u00edky v\u011bku dosp\u011blo), \u010dasto rodi\u010de p\u0159iv\u00e1d\u00ed do stavu \u0161\u00edlenstv\u00ed, \u017ee jejich potomek odm\u00edt\u00e1 na kole jezdit a m\u00e1 z n\u011bho hr\u016fzu. Op\u011bt byste se v\u0161ak m\u011bli pod\u00edvat na jeho obavy z jeho pohledu a uv\u011bdomit si, \u017ee kolo je pro n\u011bho stroj, kter\u00fd vy\u017eaduje to, aby k n\u011bmu tak i p\u0159istupovalo. A ne ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b do tohoto st\u00e1dia dosp\u011bje stejn\u011b rychle jako jeho vrstevn\u00edci.\tD\u00edt\u011b byste nem\u011bli nutit, ale motivovat!I kdy\u017e va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b je\u0161t\u011b nem\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt jasnou p\u0159edstavu o tom, co mu nov\u00e1 zku\u0161enost p\u0159inese, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b z n\u00ed bude m\u00edt zpo\u010d\u00e1tku respekt.Je to zcela v po\u0159\u00e1dku, proto\u017ee je\u0161t\u011b nev\u00ed, co ho \u010dek\u00e1 a do jak\u00e9 m\u00edry se mu to bude l\u00edbit.\u010castou chybou je to, \u017ee rodi\u010de sv\u00e9 d\u011bti automaticky nut\u00ed k \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 se jim zdaj\u00ed \u2013 pro n\u011bho dobr\u00e9, a to i p\u0159es jeho nesouhlas. Je to v\u0161ak nespr\u00e1vn\u00e1 a traumatick\u00e1 cesta, kter\u00e1 m\u016f\u017ee ovlivnit to, jak pozd\u011bji ke ka\u017ed\u00e9 nov\u00e9 v\u011bci bude p\u0159istupovat. Nejlep\u0161\u00edm zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00fd je nejv\u00edce v\u00fdchovn\u00fd, je motivace va\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte k tomu, aby se odhodlalo k n\u011b\u010demu, co se mu nezamlouv\u00e1.M\u016f\u017eete ho motivovat hra\u010dkou, j\u00eddlem, pro n\u011bho z\u00e1bavnou aktivitou, kter\u00e1 mu p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed radost a nem\u00e1 j\u00ed dostatek. To je toti\u017e pro ka\u017ed\u00e9ho rodi\u010de eso v ruk\u00e1vu, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017eou vyu\u017e\u00edt pro pot\u0159ebu toho, aby sv\u00e9mu potomkovi pomohli osm\u011blit se a pustit se do n\u011b\u010deho neprob\u00e1dan\u00e9ho.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.8\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Stav\u00ed se va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b ke v\u0161emu negativn\u011b?","item":"https:\/\/www.daas.cz\/stavi-se-vase-dite-ke-vsemu-negativne\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]